How to pay for sorority?

Sororities don't typically do scholarships or funding. Maybe you can work out a payment plan with the vice president of finance for whatever sorority and also ask for donations from business... for example, sororities are known to have lots of gear (hats, t-shirts, bags, pants, sunglasses, towels, etc...) so you could ask businesses to pay $25-$100 to put their logo on such and such an item and then bring down dues for the whole sorority or take a larger chunk for yourself if no one's helping you. Or beg the parents for some money and offer to pay them back over time. I know how it goes - I pay for my dues myself and there are people in my co-ed fraternity who are spoiled brats and have everything handed to them. You could also look into a co-ed fraternity, I love the one I'm in and have gotten that family bond that you seem to be looking for. Dues are a fraction of the cost of social sororities. (At ASU where I attend I pay $300 a year in dues, for sororities it's around $1400 a year)